marshmallowmegamama:
(content note: discusses rape)
yeah, so technically, this is a RAPE RAPE RAPE RAPITY RAPE trial. not a “sex” trail.
also, huffington post is a piece of shit for showcasing all the pictures of this woman in her cheerleading outfits (i.e. highly sexual, high levels of nakedness, etc)—and oh, yeah, all the assholes who are taking the bait and being all, “i wish i had been “victimized” by this woman hurr hurr,” need to eat burning embers.
also, the thing i’ve noticed about cases like this—it’s not 100% always this way, but a VAST portion of the cases like this are of white women raping boys of color. and they always try to get out of charges by saying their “in love” and they didn’t know what to do and they’re so sorry, but they luuuuurv this 14 year old boy. that one case that happened years ago, mary kay laterno or something like that? was with a boy of color, there’s been more than one case of white women with mexican boys who were undocumented and got deported when parents tried to report the women, there was one case that came out shortly after the first mexican boy was raped of a black boy who was raped by his teacher…
clearly i don’t have documentation of every single case ever—but there’s enough of a pattern that i notice it. and am willing to say that there’s some serious fucked up racial/gender SHIT going on here, with white women preying on boys of color—where i don’t doubt that it’s linked to the vulnerability boys of color are situated in (possible deportation, nobody believing them because boys of color are lying liars who probably deserve to be shot in the back, etc etc)—but also i think that there’s some sort of unconcious (or maybe totally completely concious) fetish fantasy thing going on where these women are scared to be with *men* of color—but still have their mistress/slave fantasies….
all i can say is that ANYbody *sniffs* at my son, and i will be ripping highlighted hair out of skulls.
(and ps. this makes me just sick, because i know a group of teens that are working against bullying and violence in schools, and the stories that htey have to tell about teachers hitting on them make my teeth hurt. all these grown ass men saying they wish they were victimized are looking at this through the eyes of their adult selves rather than the eyes of even a 17 year old kid who has pimples, is worried about getting kicked out of the house if their grades drop much lower, has untreated depression, has a crush on a fellow 17 year old, and has absolutely NO power to say no to an adult without facing reprecussions.and this doesn’t even get into actually being gay and having a female teacher saying if you don’t do what I say, i’ll fail you.
eat flaming embers and may your blisters get infected.
Christ, shades of Mary Kay Letourneau. She also tried to turn this around at first and go on about how this child was using her—bitch, you’re grown! He was 13! I don’t care if the kid is on his or her knees begging you, YOU’RE THE GODDAMN ADULT AND YOU FUCKING GODDAMN WELL KNOW BETTER. If you truly loooooove this kid like you claim to, you will LET THEM BE A TEENAGER. You will not have sex with a child. You will let that child grow up without the bullshit and trauma and fuckery that RAPING them will bring them. If you claim to loooooooove them so goddamn much, you will do everything in your power to make sure they’re actually doing their fucking schoolwork and understanding the subject matter so they will do well in life, because ACTUALLY LOVING SOMEONE means you want them to be happy and to do well and to have the best life they can possibly have. It doesn’t mean you can therefore take what you want.
Not that I believe for one minute that these scumsucking rapists ever loved their targets—they are classic narcissists and pretty much love themselves. It’s telling that they are targeting (yes, TARGETING) young teenage boys of color.
I’m sorry, and I know this is triggery but fuck it: this shit makes me stabby. I hate, hate, HATE rape apologists who act like this is no big deal. It’s as if boys can’t be raped (because the dudes always want sex amirite, especially those brown-skinned ones, they’re insatiable AMIRITE GUISE??). But, no. There’s a huge difference between a couple of 13-year-olds experimenting, or a 13-year-old and a 14-year-old consensually experimenting and having sexytime, and a GROWN ASS ADULT RAPING A CHILD.